This. Is. Why. I. Am. Single.

Melanin Mind & Soul is a lifestyle blog where you can follow a black woman on the journey to bouncing back from a rough time, by letting go of fear and do all the things on the ever growing to-do list.

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  • A Cup of CynTea☕️

    Great post girl! And you’re right! Your blog post is similar to my post “When Are You Getting Married, [Insert Your Name]?”
    It’s funny how everyone is so concerned about your relationship status to the point where they start thinking that you might be into girls. I went through a phase where I only attracted the wrong guys. Like you said rough and a bit smooth but didn’t compliment me at all.
    I know, it’s nice being in a relationship but we just have to be patient girl. We can’t stop ourselves from exploring the world because of “the chance of finding Mr Right”. I’m glad you still went to Nevis. Just live your life girl and focus on yourself. Mr Right is on his way.

    Sugars and love,

    CynTea x

    • Thank you for your comment. You’re right, we can’t but our life on hold just in case we find Mr. Right because we have no idea where he lives. 🙂

  • Damilola

    Great post, not sure if my previous comments went through the other posts. But I am loving your writing.

  • Dee

    I’m single because I realised, I had INVESTED too much time in a man that really didn’t deserve it. So now, I’m bringing my own happiness to the table. Hopefully, the next man will bring his happiness and then we can both be happy together. ☺

    • That’s real talk. Treat time as an investment, you don’t want to be spending it where it’s being wasted. I’m glad you are putting your happiness at the centre. I hope when you meet the next man that you can both grow together.

  • Simone Herbert

    Your cousin has some wise words! Don’t minimise yourself for anybody!!! ?

    • I agree with this cousin. She is a very wise woman who gives extremely good advice to boost ones confidence.

  • I think I’m still single because I want a perfect guy even though I know he doesn’t exsist. I just want an easy breezy relationship, no trust issues, no problematic behaviours a guy that gets me and wants to continue to get to know me. Sometimes I think I’m asking for too much, but then I don’t want to lower my standards.

    • I believe that two people should be able to work together to perfect what they have. Trust is a major key player. I wouldn’t advise you to lower your standards either. Your a queen darling.

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